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Rudy’s story began in 2003 in an affluent New Jersey community.
Rudy’s owner was a successful career professional who unfortunately
became involved with drugs. During his drug binges, he would neglect
Rudy horribly. Concerned neighbors fed Rudy whenever they could get
to him, and made food available when he was outside of the house.
One day the neighbors heard Rudy howling much as a wolf howls before
it dies. They became concerned that the owner may have been binging
on drugs at home and died. When the neighbors realized the owner was
no longer living in the house, they contacted the local police who
found Rudy, an aging arthritic Great Dane, abandoned in the house
and starving. The police impounded Rudy and then called Animal
Control as well as the Humane Society.
The New Jersey Chapter of the Mid-Atlantic Great Dane
Rescue League (MAGDRL) was contacted at this point and Rudy was
taken to the home of Peter Quinto to be fostered until an adoptive
family could be found for him. Giant breeds in general have shorter
life spans and, at 8 years old, Rudy was considered a “senior” Dane.
And, to complicate matters further Rudy was diagnosed with arthritis
in his hips. His MAGDRL caretakers assumed it would be hard to find
a forever home for an older Dane with medical problems.
In the fall of 2003 I saw Rudy’s picture and story on
the MAGDRL online discussion list. It was love at first sight and I
immediately began adoption proceedings. In November I traveled to
New Jersey to meet Rudy and his Foster Dad. During my visit I
adopted Rudy, planning to give him a secure and loving home for
whatever amount of time remained in his life. My plan was to give
Rudy a richer life by training him to be a therapy dog in nursing
homes. Little did I know that Rudy’s lifework would be in my own
back yard!
My job is Director of Residential Treatment at the
Grandfather Home for Children located in the mountains of Western
North Carolina. This facility is a mental health treatment provider,
and temporary home where children heal and attend a charter school:
Grandfather Academy, founded to serve the educational needs of these
emotionally, physically, and sexually abused children.
During the period between Mother’s Day and Father’s Day
2004, both the home and school experienced the loss of several
support staff members. These holidays are especially hard for
children who, for many reasons, are separated from their parents. I
knew something needed to be done quickly to fill the emotional gaps
created by the loss of staff members. For some time, I had been
seriously considering establishing an animal-assisted therapy
program at the home. I approached the Director of the Grandfather
Academy, Doug Herman, and the Language Arts Resource Intervention
Specialist, Renee Rogers, about the possibility of Rudy being able
to help the children in their classrooms. Both Doug and Renee
agreed, given the urgency of the staff shortage, to give Rudy a
chance to fill this void.
Because of Rudy’s abusive background, the children were
instinctively drawn to him and felt safe with him. In his own unique
way, Rudy worked on healing the children’s hearts. Miracles began to
happen very soon after Rudy started attending classes and
interacting with the children!
Seeing the marked improvement in the children, Doug,
Renee and I decided it was time to formally launch the Pet Services
Program at school with Rudy serving as the pilot dog. Rudy became an
honorary staff member at Grandfather Academy. With a desire to
expand the children’s experience with dogs, I consulted the
Coordinators of the NC Chapter of the Mid-Atlantic Great Dane Rescue
League (MAGDRL) about the possibility of partnering with them to
provide a foster home for another Dane. As a result, they chose
Milo, a rescued Great Dane who was fostered and trained by a group
of the children.
As the program has grown, several other mixed breed
dogs have been brought into the school to work with the children.
Recently a group of the children shouldered the task of fostering
and training four Great Dane puppies. The process of caring for and
working with the puppies, including finding adoptive homes for them,
has been one they will remember and treasure for the rest of their
lives.
With so many positive experiences, it was time to
create a name for the children’s rescue work. It was of the utmost
importance for the name to reflect the sense of safety and
empowerment the children have experienced with Rudy. Out of all the
amazing names the children submitted, the acronym “HELP” ~ Helping
Every Little Paw ~ was chosen as the name of the children’s work
with rescued animals.
I feel extremely privileged to spend my days
observing Rudy opening the children’s hearts and minds to the power
of unconditional love. Witnessing the profound impact Rudy has on
the children and the staff members who serve them is inspiring. Rudy
simply pours love and acceptance from his eyes and the children
receive it. By example, he has taught children to be sensitive to
others and about the extraordinary gentleness of true power – no
matter what your life experiences have been. One day, Rudy left a
group of children playing to walk to a separate area where a child
was disclosing abuse experiences to a child protective services
investigator . . . without a prompt, to lay at her feet and be with
her. His impact on individual children is now part of the discussion
at treatment team meetings where mental health and social service
professionals struggle to plan for high risk children.
There simply aren’t enough words, pictures or stories
to express the hero Rudy is to all of us. You really have to be
there and hear the soft voices say “Goodnight, Rudy” from their
bedrooms as I pick Rudy up after a day with “his” girls . . . or
hear a child say “Hey, Rudy! Guess what!” and then continue to
chatter as she walks to school with Rudy, her confidant. Those
voices say it all!
Rudy was recently honored for his work with the
children by receiving the Hero Award at the 2005 Broadway Barks
adopt-a-thon. Hosted by Mary Tyler Moore and Bernadette Peters, the
event is produced by Broadway Care/Equity Fights AIDS and sponsored
by Animal Planet, Dogsters, The New York Times, Loews Hotels, Sherpa,
and took place on Saturday July 30 in Shubert Alley.
Presented by Monty Python’s Spamalot star, David
Hyde-Pierce, the Broadway Barks Hero award is a certificate of
recognition awarded to an animal or individual who has made a
significant contribution to the community and/or to animal welfare.
Past recipients have included various types of service dogs, as well
as a dog that played a prominent role in search and rescue on 9/11.
The first award was granted at Broadway Barks 4 in order to pay
tribute to the dogs that showed such heroism and courage in their
search and rescue efforts on 9/11.
Some thoughts from students and staff of Grandfather
Academy:
Tania J. age 14 (a
student): “Reflecting back on my time with Rudy I have come
to realize much about myself through my care and interactions with
Rudy. When I first came to Grandfather Home, I wanted to become
pregnant because I wanted to give something all the care and love I
felt I had missed in my life. I was able to transfer this incredible
love that I have in myself to Rudy. Since he was there with me, I
learned, with the help of staff, how to care for him without messing
up. This made me feel good about myself, and it helped to fill a
hole in my heart. Rudy’s slobbering kisses make me laugh. His
welcoming facial expressions fill my heart with joy. Watching him
trot around on walks brings a smile to my face. In general, I can
not find enough words to express how Rudy has changed my life.”
Jennifer B. age 14 (a student): “Rudy
is a great support person and he really listens to what you tell him
and he can’t hold a grudge. Rudy’s soft eyes and comical eyebrows
tell you exactly what he is thinking. When you are having problems
you can sit by Rudy and read to him while he listens to what you are
saying. Talking to him about your feelings helps and sometimes you
can hear what this wise old dog is telling you.”
“Because of Rudy’s size he can surprise you the first
time, but just spending a little time with him you’ll know why he is
loved by so many people who come here. Rudy was abused and neglected
and then he was adopted by a family that loves him. This makes Rudy
an even better support person because we can relate to him. Rudy has
issues with being separated from his owner. He will sit, whine and
pout just like a kid when he sees her and can’t go with her. He also
listens to adult authority, which sets the example for us. Rudy
stays in the class with us every so often so he can visit other
classrooms too. We miss Rudy when he isn’t with us but we cherish
every moment we have with him while we can.”
Doug Herman, Director of
Grandfather Academy: “Our hero Rudy performs with the wisdom,
charm, and patience of a veteran teacher. His work with our
struggling readers has been more beneficial than we could have ever
imagined. Even our most reluctant readers are eager to read to him,
and he perseveres consistently demonstrating his support and
non-judgmental active listening skills with all his students.”
Renee Rodgers, Language
Arts Resource Intervention Specialist: “Heroes come in all
shapes and sizes and Rudy, our devoted Harlequin Great Dane, is no
exception. When you look deeply into the piercing blue eyes of this
Gentle Giant you will not see the pain, abuse, or neglect he
suffered in his younger years. What you will experience is the
wisdom and understanding he has for our abused student population
coupled with the unconditional love and compassion he feels toward
everyone he meets. Rudy is honestly one of the most incredible
gentlemen I have ever encountered! He truly is a naturally gifted
service dog. He is, without a doubt, Grandfather Home and Academy’s
Hero of the Year!” |